How a Simple Watch Changed My Perspective on Time

Name the most meaningful personal item you’ve ever purchased or received (not your home or car).

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How a Father’s Gift Turned a Hill-Child Into Someone Who Learned to Race Time

By Rohitash Yadav • Garhwal ➝ Kumaon ➝ Dehradun ➝ Singapore • Nov 9, 2025


Metal on the wrist. Mountains in Mind

The most valuable thing I ever owned wasn’t something I purchased. It came in a tiny velvet box, placed quietly in my hand by my father: a wristwatch. Simple, warm, and full of meaning. I didn’t know it then, but that watch would slowly transform a carefree mountain kid into someone who respected time.

I grew up in Dehradun, but my real childhood belonged to the hills of Garhwal and Kumaon. Forest paths were our playgrounds, streams kept food cool, and mountains taught us confidence long before classrooms did.

Garhwal: Where Nature Was the First Teacher

In the villages, help was always nearby—sometimes in the form of herbs, sometimes in faith, and always in community. There was a traditional leaf bandage the elders used for injuries, something passed down through generations. People trusted it, and it often worked because care, patience, and experience were involved. I learned early that knowledge in the hills is old, quiet, and practical.

Curiosity made me ask questions. Time made me understand the answers.

The Timber Days, Local Cars, and a Soft Childhood

My grandfather was known for his timber business in Kumaon. Back then, life was comfortable—family cars, horses in the courtyard, and the first bus stop in our area. My childhood was gentle, and everything I wanted usually arrived as a gift.

Boarding School and a Biscuit That Tried to Steal My Moment

Then came boarding school—bells, discipline, timetables. And a funny memory: I once got a chance to meet Ruskin Bond. The author whose words feel like quiet Himalayan rain. The meeting was wonderful, except a biscuit tried to embarrass me at the wrong moment. Story for another day.

Drawing Faces, Ink on Hands, First Job

I discovered portraits and cartoons. Lines and expressions fascinated me, and my first job in Dehradun was as a learner cartoonist at a local newspaper. Tiny pay, huge pride. My drawings bought me chai, bus rides, and confidence.

The Watch That Became a Lesson

Since I rarely purchased things myself, my father gave me a watch instead of advice. A quiet message: “Time belongs to you too.”

Watch = Guidance.
Time = Opportunity.

And then there was Sultan, the neighborhood shopkeeper with a dry sense of humor. One day, after observing my very relaxed lifestyle, he jokingly said:

“Aap toh bahut aaraam se chal rahe ho, is speed pe zindagi aapko miss kar degi.”

“You are walking so casually, with this speed life will miss you”

Lighthearted. Casual. But it landed like a mirror in my face.

I had two options:

  • Stay slow forever
  • Pick up pace and surprise myself

I chose the second.

When Minutes Became Teammates

That watch taught me discipline. I organized schedules, finished work on time, and my grades improved. Time stopped feeling like a river and started feeling like a companion.

If you enjoy science over stories, here’s some research:

How time management supports performance

Gratitude and happiness

And for nostalgic souls, here’s another memory.

Garhwal ➝ Global Hallways

Life moved. Interviews came. Some rejections, many learnings. One day, I found myself working in Singapore, later with global companies. From wooden school desks to glass buildings—time has a sense of humor.

The first time I held my office ID abroad, I smiled and remembered that watch. It had done its job.

And the Watch?

Still safe. Still mine. Later, I bought an expensive watch with my own savings. It looked beautiful, but I realized one truth:

The first watch gave me direction.
The second only gave me style.

Not an Ending, Just a Pause

I was a hill kid who didn’t worry about time. Then a small gift changed the way I lived. That’s the story.

What about you?
Is there a gift that shaped your life?
Or a moment that pushed you forward?

#FathersLove #Garhwal #Kumaon #Dehradun #TimeManagement #Mindfulness #LifeLessons #HimalayanTimes #Cartoonist #RuskinBond #Childhood #Singapore #Motivation #Gratitude #Storytelling


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7 responses to “How a Simple Watch Changed My Perspective on Time”

  1. Yaadein… yaad aati hai ✨✨
    I can really understand that how a simple gift can carry the profound weight of a life lesson. It resonates deeply—a reminder that the most valuable things often aren’t bought, but given. The journey you have described—from the timeless rhythms of Garhwal and Kumaon to the structured, fast-paced environment of Singapore—is a powerful metaphor for growth itself. Bravo🫶🏻
    Sultan’s lighthearted but pointed comment, “Aap toh bahut aaraam se chal rahe ho, is speed pe zindagi aapko miss kar degi,” is a perfect example of a pivot point. Sometimes, a casual remark from an unexpected source is exactly the mirror we need to change direction. It’s a wonderful illustration of how external observation can spark internal motivation.
    Thank you for sharing such a personal and well-told story. It’s inspiring to see how that journey from drawing cartoons in Dehradun to navigating global hallways was all quietly anchored by a simple watch.
    Thanks for the prompt… shall share my story soon 🥰✨

    1. Baatein bhool jaati hain… par yaadein hamesha yaad aati hain.
      Aur sach kahun, ye yaadein tab aur gehri ho jaati hain jab koi dil-o-jaanam hume chhod kar chale jaata hai.
      Words fade… but memories return. And they return loudest after the heart has lost the one who once stayed.

      Aparna,
      aapke shabdon ka ek alag hi sakoon hota hai. Aapka likhna sirf grammar ka khel nahi,
      balki jazbaat ko sentence ke andar samaane ka hunar hai.
      Jaise har line me ek halka sa pyaar, ek chhupa hua ehsaas,
      aur ek seedha dil tak jaane wala charm.

      Kabhi kabhi lagta hai,
      agar likhne ki duniya me koi “grace quotient” hota,
      toh aapka score waise hi hota—
      halki muskaan, thoda adaa, aur pura dil.

      Sultan ka comment ek pinch-of-salt reality check tha…
      par aapka comment ek soft-touch reminder hai—
      ki kahaniyan tabhi sundar hoti hain
      jab unme emotion ka grammar ho
      aur likhne ka pyaar saath ho.

      Aur aapka yeh wada—
      “shall share my story soon”
      bas yahi ek line kaafi hai proving that
      life may run fast…
      but some writers know exactly how to slow moments down
      and make them unforgettable.

      Waiting for your story—
      utni hi khoobsurat, utni hi zinda,
      aur utni hi Aparna-style ✨🙂

      #Yaadein #EmotionalWriting #HeartSpeaks #LifeLessons #WriterSoul

    1. Done…👍 Make sure you keep writing and making random replies with this strength and warmth with your “cute n innocent” shayaris n songs and what not.
      Keep blessed 🙌💐💐🌹

      1. Done

      2. Great 👍👍

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